I don’t chase ’em, I replace ’em. Remember that. I have spend a lot of life, questioning my worth. Questioning am I enough? Pretty enough? Sexy enough? Skinny enough? Smart enough? Talented enough? AND I’m exhausted.
I don’t know what it is in my subconscious that I struggled to see my own worth. It’s something internal. It has effected everything I’ve done but it’s something I’ve been working on for the majority of my life. Despite posting powerful images, where I look confident, dope and I encourage self esteem and confidence, I still struggle. I’m on a completely different level mentally then the Brianna who started this blog and I’m so proud of the work I’ve done. A large part of me is confident and unstoppable but I need to be real and tell you I still struggle with doubt and the fear that I’m not good enough.
I think we all do. I think we all have moments of doubt but we need to get up and be us anyways. We need to look in the mirror and face those fears and doubt straight on. That’s how we get past them. We are born for great things and we need to refuse to allow fear to stop us. Francis Dive (@youmeandfashion) gave me some of the best advice the other day. I was going on a “I cant” and “I don’t know” rant and she said, “Brianna, would you regret it more if you didn’t do it”. It immediately stopped me in my tracks. Yes. One thousand times, yes.
So replace fear with confidence. Replace doubt with knowing, knowing you are perfectly enough. Breath action into your dreams and RUN into them. Everything you want is on the other side of fear ++
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