It’s time to bloom (we’re talking plus size pleasure)! **are we all singing the Troye Sivan song?!
I hate the idea of a “late bloomer”. I grew up fat, that’s how I was made to feel. I look back at photos and wonder why I was made to feel so different. I also grew up with the idea that I wasn’t attractive. It’s ridiculous and so false. It took me time to grow into myself. It took even longer for me to bloom into my best self, bloom into my pleasures, bloom and settle into who I’m supposed to be. I’m still blooming honestly.
This is all about owning your body, enjoying your body, leaning into joy and……yes, sex! Plus size pleasure!
What does good sex look like for you?
1. Touch Yourself
Okay… sure, masturbate, get into it! I’m really talking about touching your body all over. Grab, caress, love on all your body. Take the time to rub in lotion, take the time to hug yourself, take the time to massage your belly lol! Touch yourself!
2. Adorn Yourself
Put on items you love… accessories, satin, lace, leather, lingerie, a baggy tee… what makes you feel sexy?! Put something on for you. Do you love how it feels on your body? Do you love how it looks on your body? Does it make you feel sexy af?! WEAR IT.
3. Take Photos of Yourself
To share or to keep for yourself, take your camera out. Take photos, hit your angles and look at how gorgeous you get.
4. Date Yourself
What is your love language? Date yourself and give yourself the love you need. Is it gifts, quality time, touch, acts of service or words of affirmation?